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TRUE AGAPE LOVE
What it Agape Love is…
…and what it is Not.
I woke up as if I was having a conversation in my sleep. I was in agreement with some very beautiful, clear ideas connected to what I was working on. I was being shown the interconnection between the articles — the love and the agape, the Word and the Logos — that these things are of God, and they are forever.
The Word is God. The light is also God. All that is of God is eternal; it is forever. It is stated, my God. Jesus has made statements on the light. He is also the light of all life on this planet. To be clear, life itself is the light.
Of course, I am still finishing this document and this video, along with the information around agape love — what it is and what it is not. I am also going to extend this with what else is of God, and I will say: all that is of God is forever; everything else shall pass.
I use a true situation from my life as an excellent example of what love is. I can honestly say the people that tried to take my life — the ones who tried to hurt and harm me — yet my love has me trying to save them, committed to helping them see the love and grace of God: The New Covenant of Grace.
Agape love is the highest form of love, the kind that comes straight from God. It is unconditional, selfless, sacrificial, and a deliberate choice of the will. It seeks the highest good for the other person no matter what — regardless of feelings, merit, response, or personal cost. It is not mainly an emotion. It is action. It is commitment. It is the love that gives and keeps giving even when it is not returned, not thanked, or even rejected.
Agape In the New Testament, agape is the love God shows us. God is agape…
…It is patient and kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Agape rejoices with the truth, always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. It never fails.
This is completely different from the love most people understand in the world today. Worldly love is usually conditional, feeling-based, and self-focused. But true agape is divine and of God. It is the love I have come to know through my own life saving transformation in belief of Jesus Christ the Hardened heart was lost and the veil was lifted. Holy Spirit gave me a knew heart that is enslaved to righteousness. I see this as an easy proof and if you knew the one I was you know he died and I am knew in Jesus and free indeed. I am here to save lives or people that essentially killed that old version.
God’s New Covenant of Grace is the perfect picture of agape. It is a free gift of grace, not earned by performance, law-keeping, or being “good enough.” God loved us and gave His Son while we were still sinners, rebels, even enemies. He initiates, He sacrifices, and He commits no matter how we respond. As Scripture says, “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Jesus Christ died for us.” That is agape.
I see this so clearly in my own life. I was deeply deceived, betrayed by those I trusted most — John Doe, family and friends. Love all was always the way in, as I was and am always loving.
Deceptive job offers, false prophets, and phony friends — I went through pain, attacks, even attempts on my life. This was many people. Note: a world of fools. I too was once a fool in sin.
Yet God saved me by His grace. He washed me clean and set me free. Now I walk in newness of life, no longer enslaved to sin, because of this unconditional love. That same agape now flows through me toward others. Even my enemies is an understatement — it is the enemies that inspire my love the most.
Every stone thrown became more strength in the foundation of the temple of God.
Everyday examples of agape that people can understand: Think of a parent who keeps loving, providing, and praying for a sinful, foolish child who rejects their love, causes deep pains. Love remains without waiting for them to “shape up or return” first. That is agape/love.
I live this with my daughter Ava Wettstein. I love her unconditionally. I pray for her. I hope she comes into the New Covenant of Grace and sees the saving power of Jesus in my life. My love for her does not depend on her current response or past or hurts. My greater concerns are never for the pains I have in missing her — they are the harms and suffering and the many unknowns, and not having spoken in three years. I would give my life to not see her suffer a day.
The fullness of my love is from my heart and the strengthened ways of my righteous enslavement — the love of God that is in me and from me. No one can break the love. It is always. It is forever.
More agape insights: staying committed through sickness, financial loss, or emotional distance — not because the other person “deserves” it in the moment, but because of the choice made in love. Or helping someone who has betrayed you, without demanding an apology or repayment, but genuinely seeking their healing and restoration.
I remember showing my daughter with intention so she would understand what it was to be kind — buying food for homeless people because if I gave them money, it could be used for drugs. Seeing a parent in a food aisle buying less because they were poor and had children — what does that do to your heart? I have gone hungry before to feed someone.
The expression “kill them with kindness” is the wrong way. Give them life with love. Never do anything to harm; always do things to heal. That is what I try to do with those who have hurt me deeply, including specific people I have reached out to in love for years, even while documenting the truth for protection. I also know God knows and sees all. I withhold full public exposure not to hide anything, but to give room for repentance and grace. I document miracles to show the love of God.
I’ve been to the hospital many times. All they needed to do was stitch up a hole in my head. It is now on five occasions and over 3 years. I videotaped the last three — those were the worst. These are people that are not interested in genuinely caring. There is no love at the hospital these days. If it wasn’t enough to have seen the mockery — the dancing, silly vaccination videos — these people took money to poison, not to help, not to heal, and they were far from stitching up my head. Yet I am not dead. I always say, look at the miracle: I can touch my brain with my finger, yet I can’t get stitches at the hospital. God will not let them kill me, and I am not afraid to die because I live with my God forever.
Agape looks like anonymous generosity — giving time, resources, or encouragement to people who may never thank you or return it or even know of it. It is speaking hard truth to protect someone from deception, not to punish them, but to help them heal. It is the kind of love my dog Chewy shows in his pure, protective loyalty and unconditional affection every single day. He joins me in the morning and reminds me what simple, faithful love looks like.
I know my dog. What I say is true love. With my dog, it is Chewy Love. He doesn’t worry about what he has today — just like me. I lack nothing, and I know my dog has faith in me, and I have faith in my God.
How worldly “love” usually works In the modern world, what people call love is often not love at all.
Dictionaries describe it as an intense feeling of affection or romantic attachment, but in practice it is conditional: “I love you if you make me happy, meet my needs, stay attractive, or agree with me.” It withdraws when conditions are not met — ghosting friends after disagreement, ending relationships when feelings fade, or demanding conformity in family or politics. It keeps score of wrongs. It is driven by emotions that come and go. It is often transactional — what have you done for me lately? I’ve heard many lines crossed even what felt like competitive responses to stories of suffering. I think sometimes the most painful parts are when you realize you are not loved.
One thing that really opened my eyes on this is love songs. Dr Hook song “When You’re in Love With a Beautiful Woman” — that was a big catalyst for me wanting to teach on this. A lot of what people call love songs are not really singing about love at all. They’re singing about the problems that come from misunderstanding what love is. In that song, he’s singing about betrayal, cheating, lying friends who are not honest, and a man who can’t trust the people around the woman he’s with. Those are not friends — they’re broken parts of people causing unhealthy relationships full of suspicion and pain. Yet the world packages it as a “love song.”
That’s exactly how worldly “love” works. It’s filled with fear of betrayal, keeping score, jealousy, and conditions that fall apart the moment trust is tested. Real agape doesn’t operate that way. It doesn’t live in constant suspicion or measure every wrong. It chooses truth and the other person’s good even when it hurts.
I have seen the difference in my own story. Before Christ delivered me, I lived in that broken kind of love and pain. Now, through agape, I choose not to measure all the harm done to me. I choose truth and love instead. Love is always truthful. It is honest. It protects. It does not seek revenge. This is why I continue reaching out to those who have deceived and attacked me — because agape wants their freedom and healing too.
Living agape in daily life Agape is not natural for us. It is supernatural. It is the fruit of the Holy Spirit living in us because of The New Covenant of Grace. In my content and teachings, I pour this out by sharing the good news of Jesus, exposing deception not to harm but to throw life jackets of truth to people sinking in lies. I persevere even when it costs me, because this love wins.
Whether with family, in ministry, or toward enemies, agape means choosing the other person’s highest good. It is patient with difficult people, kind without expecting thanks, and steady and light through every storm. It is the love that set me free, and it is the love I want to model for Ava and for everyone watching.
This is the love that never fails. It is God’s love for us, and our love for one another as Jesus commanded. If you are tired of conditional, failing love, come to The New Covenant of Grace. Belief in Jesus is the way to be truly free indeed. His agape changes everything — pains to gains, death to life, deception to truth and AGAPE / LOVE is FOREVER
AGAPE LOVE WINS & it is GOD!
Matthew 5:43-48
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”
Matthew 24:35
Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away.
John 1:1
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
John 1:4-5
In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.
John 3:19-20
This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but people loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil. Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that their deeds will be exposed.
John 8:12
When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”
John 15:9-13
“As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love. I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”
Romans 5:1-11
Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.
You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person, though for a good person someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God’s wrath through him! For if, while we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! Not only is this so, but we also boast in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.
1 Corinthians 13:1-13
If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
Ephesians 2:1-10
As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath. But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
1 Peter 1:24-25
For, “All people are like grass, and all their glory is like the flowers of the field; the grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of the Lord endures forever.” And this is the word that was preached to you.
1 John 4:7-21
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.
This is how we know that we live in him and he in us: He has given us of his Spirit. And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in them and they in God. And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them. This is how love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment: In this world we are like Jesus. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. We love because he first loved us. Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen. And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.
Revelation 21:4
‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.
Psalm 90:2
Before the mountains were born or you brought forth the whole world, from everlasting to everlasting you are God.
Psalm 100:5
For the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.
Isaiah 40:8
The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of our God endures forever.
Isaiah 60:19-20
The sun will no more be your light by day, nor will the brightness of the moon shine on you, for the Lord will be your everlasting light, and your God will be your glory. Your sun will never set again, and your moon will wane no more; the Lord will be your everlasting light, and your days of sorrow will end.
Isaiah 65:17
“See, I will create new heavens and a new earth. The former things will not be remembered, nor will they come to mind.”
Jeremiah 31:3
The Lord appeared to us in the past, saying: “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.”
Lamentations 3:22-23
Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
Ezekiel 36:26-27
I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws.
Malachi 3:6
“I the Lord do not change. So you, the descendants of Jacob, are not destroyed.”
Interconnected Stories and Word Meanings
It’s interesting because I can read the Bible now and I know where there are misunderstandings. What is interesting is that how I know it. I enjoy a fuller understanding, in seeing the stories interconnected and the fullness as it renders great joys.
Here is an example, actually here is a few examples: there are many words that have many meanings and none of these meanings are incorrect but there is only one correct meaning in some of these uses in the Bible.
For instance swear is only being used to tell you to say yes or no not to take oaths.
Nation; the Bible uses the word “nation,” it almost exclusively refers to an ethnic group, tribe, or a distinct cultural people group rather than a modern, geographically bound political country.
Church is not a physical building, an institution, or a denomination. It is entirely a relational and spiritual reality—the community of believers who are spiritually united in Jesus Christ.
“Swear” — Simply Yes or No, Not Oaths
Matthew 5:33-37
“Again, you have heard that it was said to the people of old, ‘You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform to the Lord what you have sworn.’ But I say to you, Do not swear at all, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God, or by the earth, for it is his footstool, or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make one hair white or black. Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything more than this comes from evil.”
“Nation” — Ethnic/Cultural People Group, Not Modern Political Country NOT the Country of Denial
Matthew 28:19-20
“Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
Revelation 5:9-10
“And they sang a new song, saying, ‘Worthy are you to take the scroll and to open its seals, for you were slain, and by your blood you ransomed people for God from every tribe and language and people and nation, and you have made them a kingdom and priests to our God, and they shall reign on the earth.’”
“Church” — Relational and Spiritual Reality, Not a Building or Institution
Matthew 18:20
“For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.”
1 Corinthians 12:27
“Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it.”
Matthew 16:18
“And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.”
Acts 4:11
Jesus is ‘the stone you builders rejected, which has become the cornerstone.’
NOTE: I can have many well-stated, good, truthful comments on almost all Scripture. There are things that are missing from them, and this is easier to mislead and be misunderstood. What I have to say to the rock building the church and how the stories interconnect is another article on its own. Jesus is the stone that was rejected. The internal temple of God is the believers of Jesus that have accepted the new covenant of grace. The external religious organizations and temples — they have been corrupted.
The Prophecy: This idea originally comes from Psalm 118:22, which reads, “The stone that the builders rejected has become the cornerstone.”
The Builders: In Jesus’ parables and the teachings of the apostles, the “builders” represented the religious and political leaders of Israel. They were responsible for building up God’s kingdom but refused to accept Jesus because his teachings and humble arrival did not fit their expectations.
The Cornerstone: While they cast him aside — ultimately leading to his crucifixion — God raised him from the dead and made him the chief cornerstone. In ancient construction, the cornerstone was the most vital structural element; it determined the position, alignment, and stability of the entire building.
Fulfillment: Throughout the New Testament, this metaphor is repeatedly applied to Jesus. He became the unbreakable, foundational support for the church and the universal plan of salvation, proving that the rejections of men are often used by God to establish something marvelous. You can see how this was applied by the apostles right after the resurrection in Acts 4:11.
